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THE POWER TO TURN AWAY FROM DRINKING What’s needed to resist the pressure — and You’re not receptive to what’s Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy comments on the value of such heartfelt desire: "Desire is prayer; and no loss can occur from trusting God with our desires, that they may be moulded and exalted before they take form in words and in deeds" (p. 1). The simple desire to improve gently leads us to communion with God, the source of good. And this communion changes things for the better. To be exact, it changes thought, and when one’s thought changes — becomes more God-based — one’s life also changes — becomes more God-based. The temptation to drink can end naturally, then, just as the caterpillar leaves behind its chrysalis once it becomes a butterfly. If God is Life, if God is I think it’s cool not to drink. I "Let the words of my mouth, and No matter how much pressure there is, we can choose to turn to God. Nothing can keep us from making that choice. In fact, God, Himself, helps us choose Him. He helps us simply by being God. Yielding to all that God is already doing — governing us, guiding us, loving us — is what’s needed. It takes more than manipulating This takes practice, but it is not a halfhearted proposition. The goal is not merely to drink less but to stop drinking alcohol entirely. Mary Baker Eddy minces no words on this subject. In her Miscellaneous Writings, she states: "Whatever intoxicates a man, stultifies and causes him to degenerate physically and morally. Strong drink is unquestionably an evil, and evil cannot be used temperately: its slightest use is abuse; hence the only temperance is total abstinence" (pp. 288–289). I could see that I couldn't There are strong moral standards in the Bible that I use as my guide to life. To me, these meant being modest and not drinking and not smoking. Treating other people the way that you want to be treated — as Jesus brought out in the Sermon on the Mount (see Matt., chaps. 5-7). While these people definitely were wonderful friends, it did not appear they’d had that type of foundation growing up. So, I wondered, should I stop being friends with them? That seemed really harsh because the Bible also tells you not to judge. I remember, when Jesus was talking to the Pharisees, people were wondering why he was hanging out with sinners. They were judging him. But Jesus had a good answer. In essence, he said the righteous don’t need me; I’m here to save those who need me. So, I began to focus on being the best person that I could be, and trusted that everything else would fall into place. I love gospel music. It really inspires me. And there’s a gospel song that says when people take a close look at us, that they see Christliness. Meaning that although you don’t look like Christ, they feel the love and the pureness and the innocence that we all really want to be expressing. My friends would joke and say, "Ha, ha, we’re going to get you drunk" or "We’ll see what it does to you" or whatever. But it wasn’t pressure. I really felt that they respected me. When I did go out, even though there were drugs and drinking at parties, they would protect me, and when someone offered me something they would say, "Oh, she’s a Christian Scientist — she doesn’t do that." Or even at the end of the night, when I was the only one who was still sober, they would say: "I’m so glad that you’re Christian because you’re the only sober person here." But actually, there were one or two times that I remember being stressed out, and hearing, "Oh well, you can just party it off on the weekends." And there was a time when I totally gave in to that. I had had a terrible week and came home and thought, "I’m just going to get drunk and forget about it." It didn’t have anything to do with my upbringing or my foundation. It was just that temptation. Sometimes you become hypnotized into doing things that go against everything that you’ve ever been taught about relying on God. Well, that’s what I did. The drinks didn’t taste good, first of all. But then I realized that my problems were still there, and I felt out of control. I felt even worse, as though I were giving over my control — the control of my life and my thoughts — to someone besides myself and God. And I didn’t like that, so I never did it again. Having friends and having a social life when you’re young and having fun, I feel is right, and it expresses the good God gives His children. And so when I go out I don’t think, "Oh, if there is alcohol there, I can’t go." I just think about going out and being the best person I can be and expressing goodness. I want to be a Christian, siding with good. I find that when I focus on that, I often end up in places where there isn’t a lot of drinking or other things that are not in accord with my moral standards. But even if there is something, I don’t feel uncomfortable, and I find time to talk to people. People ask me why I don’t drink, and they think it’s pretty cool. I’ve found that a lot of young people are looking for a reason not to drink. I think they’re looking for a reason not to do what the world expects young people to do. Written for the Sentinel |
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